A couple of years ago I'd gotten drunk at this party and a guy who had been flirting with me all night convinced me to have sex with him. When I woke up the next morning I freaked out about it. He said it was okay because I'd given consent but I feel like I was coerced. I don't know what to call it and I feel really horrible every time I think about it. Was this rape, or am I just being melodramatic?
People who are drunk cannot consent.
Nobody can TELL you that you have given consent, YOU would know if you have because you would feel good about it.